Sunday, November 27, 2011
Friday, November 18, 2011
30 day challenge: day 4!
Day 4: Your views on religion.
These topics get more and more personal. My views on religion are complicated as is the subject. I was born and raised Catholic. I went to church every Sunday and was in Sunday school as well. I believe in God, a higher being, a higher power, etc. I don't think religions are so different, we all worship a higher being or power. The only difference is what we call that higher being. I believe we should all love and care about one another and I think if we all actually practiced that, the world would be much easier to live in. Religion, to me, is something that human beings created to give them hope in bad times. When people are helpless or sad or desperate, it's always comforting to know there is something out there bigger than yourself that you can confide in and trust. I don't think religion is a bad thing and I don't think it should be so seperated from state because like I said, we all believe in the same higher power, we just call them different names. I also think some religions can learn from others and I think that everyone should have some kind of faith. Faith and hope is what gets people by in day to day life. I seem to take things from each religion I learn about. So, I would say I am Catholic, not a practicing Catholic anymore but I still have faith in a higher power than myself. I believe in Heaven, the afterlife, etc. I do think that our soul goes somewhere else when we die and that creates great comfort. No one wants to think when they die, that's it. I think whatever your religion is, it's all the same. Faith, hope, belief, peace and love is all we ever want. No matter who we ask if from.
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
When good intentions go wrong
I did something I thought was mature and was the right thing to do and then I was expected to read minds. I don't read minds, I don't know what you're thinking if you don't tell me. I am pretty good at reading body language and when someone is expressing through their movements and actions that they don't want to communicate or interact with you, what are you supposed to do? I need that answer because then this whole thing could have been avoided.
I am the kind of person who is shy. I was taught to speak only when spoken to but once I get to know you, I let my guard down and I'm actually really nice. I hate making people uncomfortable, I hate making people wait, I hate letting people down, I hate when people think I'm a bitch because I'm so quiet and shy, I hate being mad at people, I hate people feeling as though I don't care when I do, I hate people feeling as though I'm unappreciative when I am and I hate people thinking they know what I'm thinking when they don't.
I'm not a mean or disrespectful person but I don't read minds so if I think someone is mad or upset with me and I apologize for whatever I did to make them feel that way, I'm not going to chat them up. I'm going to keep my distance because I don't want them to feel uncomfortable or annoyed. Is that wrong? Why am I being blamed for something when I didn't do anything but what I thought was right?! It's sad and hurtful. It hurts my feelings. So, after I went out on a limb and apologized, I should assume the person forgives me and act like nothing ever happened? I'm not that kind of person. If someone says something to me, I respond with either "I agree", "I don't agree." or "I don't know what I feel right now or how to respond.". HOW HARD IS THAT?! But, that's not the case here. That rule of consideration doesn't apply here. I have to do what is right and what is good for everyone but when it comes to me, the communication is out the door. I get the shaft, I get pushed aside, I get swept under the rug. All that needed to be done was communication. I communicated my sorrow and it was left hanging there and I was supposed to take that and assume that everything was okay.
I feel extremely wronged in this situation especially after I tried to do what was right the first time around. It's so frustrating. It makes you not want to do what is right. It makes you want to only look out for yourself. It makes you not want to care about anyone else. But, I will do what is right and look out for others and care about everyone else anyways. Because, that's the right thing to do. And hopefully that will get me somewhere.
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Thursday, November 10, 2011
Oops missed a couple!
Ok, so I totally have not been keeping up with the Kardashians and doing this 30 day challenge. So, I'll just start where I left off...Day 3!
Day 3 is going to be about my views on drugs and alcohol. This is a good topic. Ok, so lets start with drugs. I've never tried drugs...I don't like the idea of them. I do have a system in my head of what I consider to be the worst and the not so worst. To me, anything you have to inject is scary. Which is every drug except marijuana...I think. Drugs just scare me. Honestly, they change who you are, they make you a slave to them and they can ultimately kill you. People use drugs to self medicate mainly. A trauma in life or things they can't deal with, they use drugs to suppress those feelings and the thoughts. It's scary now though, that even prescription drugs can be abused. I feel like drugs are a waste of time. They get you high for a moment and then you're down and you want more. They take over your life and make you so dependent on them, that's all you care about and you give up everything for them. Now, some people can take drugs and they don't affect them. That's all fine and dandy but it's still illegal and they are still drugs. I might offend some people I know but I'm not trying to, this is merely my opinion. I know people personally who do drugs and it's their choice. I'm not the police. I just don't think that drugs are a good thing. They are glorified in Hollywood as the cool thing to do but they aren't. In reality, they are dangerous and ruin lives.
Now on to alcohol. I am not going to lie, I drink. I drink to get drunk and I have fun doing it. But as I get older, I realize I can have fun without getting drunk and I'm soooo over the hangover the next morning. Drinking is more accepted in our society because it always has been. My view on it is mixed. I like getting drunk. I hate that it impairs your judgement and can kill you if you're not careful. Like drugs, alcohol is dangerous but I believe in small doses alcohol is okay. I think if someone needs a drink to take the edge off, it's fine. But when someone needs a couple of drinks to even start their day, then it's a problem. I don't know, it's a confusing subject to me because I like to drink but at the same time I know the dangers it poses and yet I still do it. I guess it's kind of like drugs except it's not illegal unless you are operating a vehicle and you aren't injecting it.
Well, those are my views on drugs and alcohol. Again, my opinion and not to be taken as a judgement on anyone who does drugs or alcohol. :)
xxx
Day 3 is going to be about my views on drugs and alcohol. This is a good topic. Ok, so lets start with drugs. I've never tried drugs...I don't like the idea of them. I do have a system in my head of what I consider to be the worst and the not so worst. To me, anything you have to inject is scary. Which is every drug except marijuana...I think. Drugs just scare me. Honestly, they change who you are, they make you a slave to them and they can ultimately kill you. People use drugs to self medicate mainly. A trauma in life or things they can't deal with, they use drugs to suppress those feelings and the thoughts. It's scary now though, that even prescription drugs can be abused. I feel like drugs are a waste of time. They get you high for a moment and then you're down and you want more. They take over your life and make you so dependent on them, that's all you care about and you give up everything for them. Now, some people can take drugs and they don't affect them. That's all fine and dandy but it's still illegal and they are still drugs. I might offend some people I know but I'm not trying to, this is merely my opinion. I know people personally who do drugs and it's their choice. I'm not the police. I just don't think that drugs are a good thing. They are glorified in Hollywood as the cool thing to do but they aren't. In reality, they are dangerous and ruin lives.
Now on to alcohol. I am not going to lie, I drink. I drink to get drunk and I have fun doing it. But as I get older, I realize I can have fun without getting drunk and I'm soooo over the hangover the next morning. Drinking is more accepted in our society because it always has been. My view on it is mixed. I like getting drunk. I hate that it impairs your judgement and can kill you if you're not careful. Like drugs, alcohol is dangerous but I believe in small doses alcohol is okay. I think if someone needs a drink to take the edge off, it's fine. But when someone needs a couple of drinks to even start their day, then it's a problem. I don't know, it's a confusing subject to me because I like to drink but at the same time I know the dangers it poses and yet I still do it. I guess it's kind of like drugs except it's not illegal unless you are operating a vehicle and you aren't injecting it.
Well, those are my views on drugs and alcohol. Again, my opinion and not to be taken as a judgement on anyone who does drugs or alcohol. :)
xxx
Saturday, November 5, 2011
30 Day Challenge: Day 2
Where I'd like to be in 10 years. The first thing on my list is be married with kids. I'll be 37 in ten years time and I would like to think by then I'd have a family. I would also like to be successful. Financially independent and stable. Possibly have my own boutique. Or jewelry line. I'd also like to be well traveled. Travelling seems hard now that I'm older and I see how expensive it is to travel far. But it's sooooo worth it. It gives you a better perspective on the culture you live in. I want to have visited Paris in ten years. I got close a year ago but didn't quite make it. I want to be involved in some sort of charity or cause. I want to have ran a marathon for a cause. 10 years seems far away but I graduated high school almost ten years ago now and it has FLOWN by. I'm sure there is alot more on my list of things to do and places to be in ten years. I better get started.
Friday, November 4, 2011
30 Day Challenge
So, everyday for 30 days I will have different topics to talk about and that gives me something to do since I am extremely behind in my fashion postings. For today the topic is Your current relationship and how it is, which is perfect because I love talking about the person I love.
My relationship status is happily taken. I met my boyfriend about 9 months ago and we've been dating for 6 months. We actually had a mutual connect through his older sister who I went to school with and was good friends with. I always knew she had a younger brother but never really met him until this year when I started working at a restaurant I had worked at years ago. He was a server and I was a hostess and at first we didn't really talk even though I thought he was hot and he apparently felt the same about me. I did not know he was my friends' brother until one night while we were working, his sister came into the restaurant and saw me and said hi and she said my brother works here too! So we were introduced then and there. That kind of broke the ice and we began talking more and one night I had gone to a hockey game and afterwards went up to the restaurant to have a couple of drinks and he was getting off work the same time. So he sat with me and we talked a bit then he asked me if I wanted to go to another bar and I said YES so off we went. And by the end of the night we were laughing and making out..lol. And that rest is history. We have the same sense of humor, he ALWAYS makes me laugh and though I'm 3 years older than him, we have alot in common. So, that's our story. I always love hearing about how people met and our story is pretty cool! I can't wait to see what our future holds. <3
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
In Style Fall 2011 Review
Some September launches:
1. St. John jewelry Swarovski crystals, at SJK.com
2. Chanel's Karl Lagerfeld teams up with Macy's!!!
3. Mawi London teams up with Disney Couture for the Minnie Mawi collection, at Disneyshopping.com
4. Anna Sui's new collection for Hanky Panky's 25th anniversary, at Hankypanky.com
5. Monique Lhullier launches a line for Saks Fifth Ave.
6. Queen Latifa launches a line for HSN.
7. Jennifer Lopez has shoes, clothing and home decor now at Kohl's.
8. Dolce & Gabana has a new sunglasses line!
Thought those were some neat collaboration/launches/etc for this Fall. Something to look forward to for sure.
Some things InStyle is loving at the moment:
Big cuff sleeves
Cool patent & cork combo shoes
Sparkle
Lace mini
Flowers
Eyelets
White suit
Soft leather jacket
The Boyfriend jean
Brimmed hats
The no-suit suit
Cross body bags
One more plus for this post from InStyle is Alexander Wang's tips for Fall 2011!
1. Focus on outerwear: Elevates a sporty silhouette like a puffer coat in quilted silk or a poncho that has a shirttail.
2. Be subversive or at least a little irreverent: A twist on the traditional, like wearing a plain pullover with a crazy killer shirt.
3. Rethink the shirt: Go for one that is longer and made in flowing chiffon with an unexpected detail like a high buttoned collar or a dickey bib. Think dressed up tuxedo shirt without the starch.
4. While you're at it, rethink pants: algam of tuxedo, track & ski pants. Also tailored pants with pockets to stick your hands in or satin stripes on the sides for polish.
5. Mix it up: Don't get stuck copying whats on the runways. Mix designers.
6. Go casual for evening. You don't have to buy sexy to look sexy. Surprise people by doing the unexpected. Wear a furry heeled sandal with a little black dress. Women have erogenous zones besides cleavage. Find yours.
Stay tuned for Part 2 of my summary/highlights from InStyle magazine Sept 2011.
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Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Fall 2011 trends, Part 1
This is a quick round up of what some of the fashion blogs and magazines are listing as the top trends for this Fall which is not too far away, it’s September already for Christ’s sake! So, below is a list of some of the trends I think are wearable for the normal girl/woman.
1. Plaid blazers: Last year it was just blazers, now it’s plaid blazers! We will be seeing more plaid this Fall in other articles of clothing.
2. Vests: Same as blazers, plaid plaid and more plaid!
3. Mustard: In terms of colors, mustard goes perfect with jewel tones and it perfect for the Fall since it can be seen in nature in the Fall.
4. Polka Dots: Make it modern. Don’t do a polka dot dress, pick just a skirt with a modern cut or a blouse and pair it with skinny jeans.
5. Rust: Same as mustard, in terms of color, rust can be found in nature and is therefore perfect for Fall.
6. Camo-inspired: This does not mean full head to toe camo, inspired means camo design with a modern twist. The colors in camo are found in nature as well, the greens, beiges and browns.
7. Maxi skirts: For the summer it was maxi dresses, now its maxi skirts. Pair them with a cozy sweater and some ankle boots and you’re set!
8. Chunky sweaters: The chunkier the better! Cozy and in organic colors.
9. Touch of lace: Last year it was full lace, this year it’s just a touch here and there. Less is more.
10. Jade: This color paired with mustard or rust is amazing. As with all the colors this season, nature is your biggest inspiration.
11. Bright pants: My favorite! Bright pants are the new neutral. Pair them with jewel tones or just plain neutral pieces. Make the pants the center of your outfit.
12. Cape/poncho: This is a repeat from last Fall. The cape/poncho jacket stuck around for a year and is back again so you might be able to find some at resale stores or thrift shops.
13. Leather skirt: I am so glad I did not get rid of my leather skirts! They are back! And with slits!
his is what I gathered and I hope it helps. I can tell you it helped me, I’m ready for the cold weather! Enough with the 100+ days. ENJOI!
1. Plaid blazers: Last year it was just blazers, now it’s plaid blazers! We will be seeing more plaid this Fall in other articles of clothing.
2. Vests: Same as blazers, plaid plaid and more plaid!
3. Mustard: In terms of colors, mustard goes perfect with jewel tones and it perfect for the Fall since it can be seen in nature in the Fall.
4. Polka Dots: Make it modern. Don’t do a polka dot dress, pick just a skirt with a modern cut or a blouse and pair it with skinny jeans.
5. Rust: Same as mustard, in terms of color, rust can be found in nature and is therefore perfect for Fall.
6. Camo-inspired: This does not mean full head to toe camo, inspired means camo design with a modern twist. The colors in camo are found in nature as well, the greens, beiges and browns.
7. Maxi skirts: For the summer it was maxi dresses, now its maxi skirts. Pair them with a cozy sweater and some ankle boots and you’re set!
8. Chunky sweaters: The chunkier the better! Cozy and in organic colors.
9. Touch of lace: Last year it was full lace, this year it’s just a touch here and there. Less is more.
10. Jade: This color paired with mustard or rust is amazing. As with all the colors this season, nature is your biggest inspiration.
11. Bright pants: My favorite! Bright pants are the new neutral. Pair them with jewel tones or just plain neutral pieces. Make the pants the center of your outfit.
12. Cape/poncho: This is a repeat from last Fall. The cape/poncho jacket stuck around for a year and is back again so you might be able to find some at resale stores or thrift shops.
13. Leather skirt: I am so glad I did not get rid of my leather skirts! They are back! And with slits!
his is what I gathered and I hope it helps. I can tell you it helped me, I’m ready for the cold weather! Enough with the 100+ days. ENJOI!
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Where have I been all your life?
Wow, it's been a while since I've been on here and frankly it feels good! I miss typing and just writing whatever I want. I will admit I haven't been keeping up with the fashion aspect of this blog as I had in the past but I am ready to get back to it. I've been working two jobs and I am rarely at home or near the internet long enough to sit and write but I guess something is better than nothing. I think it hit me last weekend when I saw the September issue of Vogue on the shelf at a 7/11 that it's already freaking SEPTEMBER! It's Fall, Fall Fashion is the best and it's already here! In the past, I kept up with the upcoming trends and posted them on here and on my facebook and this year I have had no time. It's really sad because this is my life and I don't want to fall behind on these things. SO! I'm here tonight to get back into the groove and do what I do best. Alright here we go!
Monday, May 2, 2011
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Haus of Shay Expanded!
Haus of Shay is expanding and is taking you with it! Stop by and see the newest designs on the coolest apparel. I have everything from shirts to tanks to totes available for sale with unique and fresh designs. Get St. Patty's day shirts just in time for all the celebrations this weekend and next with 24-48 hour delivery available. Check. It. Out.
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Simple Things
Typing in your user name and password at the speed of light
Finding hidden compartments in things you already own
The kids table
Walking on grass with bare feet
When a cop finally passes you after driving behind you for a while
Sitting on your freshly made bed and admiring your work after cleaning your room
Making the first foot print in the snow
Drawing on steamy mirrors with your fingers
Looking at all the hair on the floor after you just got a hair cut
Correctly guessing the actor voicing the animated movie character
Learning a new keyboard shortcut
Watching cream go into coffee
Letting the waves bury your feet at the beach
When you’re in the fastest moving lane in a traffic jam
When your roommate cleans the place while you’re away
Listening to couples tell you how they met
Dancing when you’re home alone
The moment on vacation when you forget what day of the week it is
-Don't forget to check out my new shop for Haus of Shay clothing and more. Click link on this post.
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Finding hidden compartments in things you already own
The kids table
Walking on grass with bare feet
When a cop finally passes you after driving behind you for a while
Sitting on your freshly made bed and admiring your work after cleaning your room
Making the first foot print in the snow
Drawing on steamy mirrors with your fingers
Looking at all the hair on the floor after you just got a hair cut
Correctly guessing the actor voicing the animated movie character
Learning a new keyboard shortcut
Watching cream go into coffee
Letting the waves bury your feet at the beach
When you’re in the fastest moving lane in a traffic jam
When your roommate cleans the place while you’re away
Listening to couples tell you how they met
Dancing when you’re home alone
The moment on vacation when you forget what day of the week it is
-Don't forget to check out my new shop for Haus of Shay clothing and more. Click link on this post.
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